Take Tests Feeling Calm, Focused & Confident

By Gwenn Kafka, CMH, MH

Whether you’re taking a high school final, a college entrance exam, a professional licensing exam, or an important certification test, one thing is true:

Knowledge isn’t always the problem.

Sometimes anxiety is.

I’ve worked with students and adults of every age who knew the material thoroughly—until they walked into the testing room.

Suddenly their heart was racing.

Their mind went blank.

They began second-guessing themselves.

Many people assume they’re forgetting what they studied. More often than not, they’re simply allowing stress and anxiety to interfere with their ability to access what they already know.

One of the things I teach my clients is how to create a calm, focused state of mind before they ever walk into the testing room.

Then I teach them how to stay there.

Every testing room has its own emotional atmosphere.

Some people are calm and confident. Others are overwhelmed with anxiety. Some are taking the test for the second or third time. Others are carrying the weight of expectations from parents, scholarships, employers, or future career goals.

You have no control over what anyone else is thinking or feeling.

But you do have control over what you allow into your own mind.

One of the techniques I teach is how to create your own calm, focused mental space before the test begins. I often guide clients to imagine themselves surrounded by a protective bubble. Inside that bubble is everything they need—their knowledge, confidence, focus, calmness, and the ability to recall what they have learned.

Outside that bubble…

Everyone else’s stress stays outside.

You don’t have to carry it.

One of my favorite examples involves my daughter.

When she was nineteen years old, she was preparing to take her California real estate licensing examination.

Before she left, I told her,

“You’ll probably be one of the youngest people in the room. Most of the people taking this exam will likely be much older than you. Don’t let that intimidate you. Age doesn’t determine who is prepared. They aren’t taking your test—they’re taking theirs.”

Then I added,

“You’re also going to hear people talking about how difficult this test is. Some will tell you it’s their second or third time taking it. Some will say they’re sure they’re going to fail. Don’t let their story become your story.”

I reminded her to stay inside her bubble, use the calming techniques we had practiced, and trust herself.

When she arrived, the testing center was exactly as I had described.

People were talking about how difficult the exam was and how many times they had already failed.

Instead of absorbing their anxiety, she stayed focused on herself.

She completed the examination nearly an hour before everyone else.

Then she began wondering if she had missed something.

“How could I possibly be finished already?”

She carefully reviewed her answers, trusted herself, and turned in the exam.

She passed with flying colors.

Later she smiled and said,

“Mom…you were right. It really helped knowing ahead of time what I was going to hear.”

That’s one of the greatest benefits of preparation.

When you know what to expect, you’re much less likely to be distracted by it.

Using hypnosis, guided imagery, and mind-body techniques, I help my clients:

• Calm their nervous system before an exam.

• Improve focus and concentration.

• Increase confidence.

• Quiet negative self-talk.

• Access information they’ve already learned.

• Stay mentally present instead of worrying about the outcome.

Whether you’re preparing for the SAT, ACT, college finals, medical boards, nursing boards, a real estate licensing exam, a professional certification, or any important test, your mind can become one of your greatest assets.

Sometimes success isn’t about studying more.

Sometimes it’s about allowing yourself to access everything you already know.

Change Your Life by Changing Your Mind™